Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Love is not love until it hurts...

I have always had this question in my head... 'Why does it feel so good when you're self-pitying, spending time alone thinking of how life has been so cruel to you, thinking of how it had you ache so much seeing your crush or your friend happy with someone else?'

We crave movies which leave us soaked in tears. We ask our friends for the latest books of sad love stories. We prefer sentimental songs than happy ones,like we've all experienced heartbreaks. Our eyes are easily caught by "emo" pics and images painted blue and gray.Well fine, if that last statement didn't sound right to you. I hate being labeled "emo" too. But you can never deny that there's something that leaves you light-hearted after

letting your heartaches flow through tears.

While surfing the net, I came across very sentimental quotes about love.

♥ "Love is like heaven but it can hurt like hell."

♥ "Love is an excuse to get hurt."

♥ "I always knew looking back the tears would make me laugh, but i nerver knew looking back

on the laughs would make me cry."

♥ "Someday you'll cry for me like i cried for you. someday you'll miss me like i missed

you. someday you'll need me like i needed you. someday you'll love me, when i'm done loving


♥ "The only guys that are worth your tears are the ones that won't make you cry."

♥ "Nothing is more panfull than realizing that he meant everything to you when you meant

nothing to him."

♥ "You hurt me so much when all i ever did was love you."

♥ "Don't say you love me unless you mean it, cause i might do something stuoid like believe


♥ "You say you can't stand to see me get hurt, so do you close your eyes when you hurt me?"

♥ "Nothing is more painful than realizing that he meant everything to you when you meant

nothing to him."

♥ "Have you ever noticed that the worst way to miss someone is when they are right beside

you yet you can't have them?"

♥ "Wanting him is hard to get. Loving him is hard to regret. Losing him is hard to accept.

♥ But with all the hurt I've felt, letting go is the most painful yet."

Now, i can only laugh at these lines. But I wish there won't come a time when I'd feel the same way as those who wrote these phrases. If that time will ever come, I wish I'd be sane enough to shake the bad ideas off my head. Grabeh! Ayoko nun! Ang emo! :p (ew! haha)

I still am puzzled with this silly random thought of mine. Bored kasi eh, kaya kung anu-ano ang iniisip... But all these ideas left me a nice realization.(or maybe an excuse if that's what you'd call it)

"Maybe God has designed us to cry when pain reaches its limit. Maybe God created us with a special ability to refresh ourselves by letting the bad energies out of our system through tears." Sana nga un lang un... Pero, Is it really not love when it still doesn't hurt?Haiiii... Well, bakit kasi natin pinoproblema ang mga bagay na hindi natin kailangang problemahin? Ayun.^^